Telling an angry grandma to calm down works about as well as trying to baptize a cat shirt. In the long Telling an angry grandma to calm down works about as well as baptizing a cat shirt that is what you want. I am now going on 80 years old and please, support their happiness by supporting their loves. She’s not talking about that, there is a middle ground where you can let them. Express themselves let them be them and teach them to discipline and direct.
What she’s talking about is that we as parents most of the time are always repressing them out of our own subconscious mind. Yes, help them to be confident and make good choices, let them build self-esteem through real achievements. I set clear and appropriate boundaries and even when my kids made mistakes, they always knew I loved them more than life. A healthy person does not struggle to love their child unconditionally. Definitely well said! And now my children are very successful in their own lives. Much more than I ever wished she was.
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